This semester, I’m studying the family and how, “The Family: A Proclamation to the World,” supports the idea of stable, loving, and eternal marriages and families. The textbook which accompanies this class promotes the principles outlined in the Proclamation and teaches us how to implement them into our marriages and families.

This week in our readings, I came across a statement that I felt compelled to write about:

The Family: A Proclamation to the World” declares that “marriage between a man and a woman is ordained of God”, (¶ 1). and that “husband and wife have a solemn responsibility to love and care for each other” (¶ 6). Furthermore, it emphasizes that “marriage . . . is essential to His eternal plan” (¶ 7). These statements make clear that marriage is a purposeful, divinely created relationship, not merely a social custom, and that couples have God-given covenant obligations to one another.[i]

Some of those obligations or covenants are outlined in the Proclamation as principles to live by: “faith, prayer, repentance, forgiveness, respect, love, compassion, work, and wholesome recreational activities.”[ii] Also included among them is complete fidelity in marriage. When families practice these principles, they are ensured the possibility of greater happiness. President Spencer W. Kimball explains that happiness “comes from within” and is “earned.” [iii] Therefore, it is safe to say that happiness in family life is earned by living the principles taught in the Proclamation.

As you read the principles outline above, think about how they pertain to your marriage and family. Ask yourself questions such as, “How are we showing our faith in God?” “Do we pray together morning and at night?” “In our prayers, are we thanking God for one another?” “Do I forgive my husband/wife?” “Do I recognize my faults and ask for forgiveness?” As you take time to contemplate how these principles might apply to your relationships, you will see how living them more fully will bring you greater happiness.

I know that living each of these principles is a covenant obligation that we have with God and with our spouse and children. I promise that when you incorporate them into your marriage, you will be more fulfilled and happier.

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[i] Hawkins, Alan J., et al. Successful Marriages and Families: Proclamation Principles and Research Perspectives. Brigham Young University, 2016.

[ii] The Family: A Proclamation to the World. (1995, November). Retrieved May 18, 2019, from https://www.lds.org/study/ensign/1995/11/the-family-a-proclamation-to-the-world?lang=eng

[iii] Kimball, S. W. (2002, October). Gospel Classics: Oneness in Marriage. Retrieved May 18, 2019, from https://www.lds.org/study/ensign/2002/10/oneness-in-marriage?lang=eng